Singer Mario Reveals Mother's Heroin Addiction And Intervention In MTV Documentary
Singersroom News
Posted on 10/22/07
NEW YORK (AP) - R&B singer Mario has been dealing with drug addiction most of his life - not his own addiction, but his mother's. The Grammy-nominated singer, best known for his 2005 No. 1 hit ''Let Me Love You,'' invites viewers to take an intimate look into his struggle to save his mother, Shawn Hardaway, from her dependence to heroin, in the /MTV/ documentary ''I Won't Love You to Death: The Story of Mario and His Mom,'' airing Sunday.
Mario, 21, began filming the documentary in the summer while working on his album ''Go'' to be released Nov. 27. It is shot from Mario's perspective - revealing a balancing act between a blossoming career and a turbulent personal life. ''It's a documentary showing the relationship with my mother, and her obstacles that she had to overcome as an addict, a drug addict. She was addicted to heroin most of her life - she's clean now,'' Mario told The Associated Press in an interview this week.
Sobriety came after Mario - with the help of Hardaway's boyfriend, a close family friend and an interventionist - confronted his mother on camera, offering her the chance to reform her life. She accepted. And Mario says the last three-and-a-half months have been the best in his life.
Addicted to heroin, Hardaway was unable to care for Mario during his early years. But it was her - a pianist - who sparked Mario's passion for music. ''She had a lot to do with me acknowledging music in the first place. She kept good music around,'' said Mario. ''She was the person who encouraged me to do those talent shows, and ultimately allowed people to see my talent.''
But it was Hardaway's addiction that kept her son from wholeheartedly enjoying his successes. And it was her addiction that led to a short childhood. ''I was about nine or 10. I remember seeing needles on the dresser, and her with like - I can't remember if it was a belt - something around her arm and she was just like, sleep on the bed,'' said Mario. ''That was the first time I ever noticed anything weird and after that it was just, I guess, her personality and her mood swings, and that type of thing. And just her not being around for long periods of time.''
Later, Mario, who has appeared in the films ''Step Up'' and ''Freedom Writers'' found himself doing another kind of acting - playing the role of parent to his mother. Mario's decision to stop supporting his mother's lifestyle is what led to the intervention.
Mario said being on camera was very difficult at first. ''I didn't want people to see how I was sometimes aggressive with my mother, or sometimes I would have to raise my voice or I would say things that I really didn't mean,'' he said. ''It was really difficult but it got to the point where I felt like the camera was almost like a book. I was telling a story. I was releasing all of these feelings that I had inside for so long.''
He said that both he and his mother hope their story is one that others can relate to. ''I was kinda surprised because I didn't know so many people had gone through the same thing. It kind of uplifted me a little bit more. And I really felt good about it. And I feel like it's gonna help to save some lives.''
I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL BECAUSE MY MOTHER IS A DRUG ATTIC AND HAS BEEN FOR ABOUT 20 SOMETHING YEARS.SHE HAD SIX KIDS AND DIDN'T RAISE ANY OF US SHE IS NOT TRYING TO OVERCOME HER ADDICTION.IF ONLY I COULD LET HER KNOW HOW I FEEL IT WOULD MEAN A LOT,BUT IT'S LIKE I'M JUST TALKING TO A BABY. I'TS GOOD THAT YOU GET YOUR PROBLEMS OUT THROUGH YOUR MUSIC BECAUSE I GET MINE OUT BY WRITING POETRY AND I LEARNED THAT EVERYONE HAS TALENT IN THEIR OWN WAY MOST OF THEM JUST DON'T USE IT.I THANK GOD EVERYDAY FOR THE GOOD AND THE BAD THAT HAPPENED TO ME BECAUSE IT MADE ME A STRONGER INDIVIDUAL,BUT THE ONLY THING I SEEM TO HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IS TALKING ABOT HOW I FEEL.I KEEP EVERYTHING BUILD UP INSIDE AND I JUST GRIEVE MORE AND MORE EVERYDAY.GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND STAY STRONG AND REMEMBER THINGS GET WORSE BEFORE THEY GET BETTER.
najia
1/30/2008 1:06:38 PM
i love you sexy
Casandra
1/29/2008 12:48:11 PM
Mario !!!! i think it was very brave of you to go live n talk about the sitituation between u n your mother .... Not alot of people wood have done tht .....u inspirerd sooo many people in the world n helped them out facing there problems........n im soo excited that ur motheer is doing good now !!!!!!! n im happy that your finally happy n u dnt have to deal with the things your mother was doin ....take care n god bless you !!!!!!!
Casandra
1/29/2008 12:48:08 PM
Mario !!!! i think it was very brave of you to go live n talk about the sitituation between u n your mother .... Not alot of people wood have done tht .....u inspirerd sooo many people in the world n helped them out facing there problems........n im soo excited that ur motheer is doing good now !!!!!!! n im happy that your finally happy n u dnt have to deal with the things your mother was doin ....take care n god bless you !!!!!!!
razanda
10/28/2007 1:45:36 AM
i understand how u feel my father use to come get me and leave me with people i didn't know.i grow up fast in a short time and now i struggle with wanting to die everyday of my life if it want for my baby i problemly would kill myself
sydney
10/27/2007 11:16:01 AM
I can't wait til it airs.....i like Mario as an artist and this gives people a chance to see what's it like to be in his own world
knowing that sometimes it's not all fun and games
it's reality.....but am glad that his mom is doing fine and so he is :)
brenda walls
10/26/2007 8:39:21 AM
i just read about mario story and it's just heartbreaking but he's doing th eright thing about talking about it so that everyone can see how things like this can destroy a family and then put god in your life and nothing will never go wrong just staand my your mother and have faith in her.
drea
10/23/2007 3:49:09 PM
Initially, I wondered why he would expose his personal life in such a manner. (I guess it was selfish of me to think that way). This documentary will indeed influence someone else who's life is affected by addiction. If not a loved one of an addict, it will truly encourage an individual who's dealing with an addiction to seek help. Sometimes looking from the outside we all seem to expect a "picture perfect" life for celebrities. They deal with the same issues we do and it's important for us to keep that in mind. To Mario...I have all respect for being unselfish enough to share this but for having a desire to influence others...
Nee
10/23/2007 2:31:01 PM
May God Bless you Mario! Heroin is no joke. So sad that you could not truly enjoy success with this situation hanging over your head. Your mom prob. wants to get clean for herself and for you too but it's the heroin that keeps her down. Stay strong, be patient and always pray!
champail
10/23/2007 2:25:04 PM
There are so many people in the world who go through the same thing and its touching that you were comfortable sharing that with the world mario you have a wonderful personality and may GOD bless u and your mother and i have so much love and respect for you stay strong and i will seriously pray for you and your mother luv ya
Tru
10/22/2007 7:02:36 PM
I just happened to catch Mario's documentary last night, and it touched me to see such a young man dealing with such harsh issues.
If you haven't seen it, please do.
I just wanted to tell him, that more than anything, I wish the very best for his mother. She is a truly fortunate person to have someone as loving and supportive of you in her life, and she should be very proud of you- I'm a stanger, and I know that I am.
You are her blessing.
God Bless, you, sweetheart. I wish you all the success in this lifetime, and much more. You deserve every great thing life has in store for you.
Keep family and friends as close as possible, and stay strong. Everything will work out! *muah* Take Care of yourself.....
Much Love, and God Bless You!
.....TRU
MONICA
10/22/2007 4:22:59 PM
DAMMM IN NLOVE DA SONG BREATH I HAVE IT FOR MY MYSPACE AHHHHHH DATZ MA SONG !!!!!!!!